Against Recurring Meetings
October 5, 2022 ⢠#I have a bone to pick with recurring meetings. Theyâve become a scourge thatâs been amplified with fully distributed teams. What may start with clear intent as a space for a team to coordinate continuous work eventually devolves into a purely ceremonial affair. And theyâve gotten 10x worse since the pandemic turned every meeting into a remote one. This effect was visible long before COVID, but I think remoteness has magnified the negatives without adding any positives.

Since no one has to book a conference room, the bar to generating tons of ceremony âsyncâ sessions has dropped to the floor. Even worse, remoteness makes a bloated 15-person meeting not feel any bigger than the 4-person meeting it shouldâve been. In person, the bloated attendee list would be an obviously bad idea â very few meetings should leave some attendees with standing-room-only.
These meetings show up on the calendar with positive intentions. A subset of folks from different teams might need to regularly stay in touch with one another on specific projects, or perhaps thereâs always some active work to be coordinated. Maybe itâs a stand-up intended to be a high-signal-per-minute short session to sync team members as quickly as possible1. There are good reasons the repeating function exists. But itâs overused. The decision to spawn a cross-functional recurring meeting isnât considered deeply enough in terms of the cost, and the long-term purpose. Almost every time Iâve seen one appear on my calendar, thereâs triggering project or event that compels someone to create it.
The âvalue per minuteâ of a recurring meeting might start high, but it decays over subsequent weeks. Itâs like thereâs a half-life on the value of a particular meeting, with its potency to get work done and problems solved waning substantially by month 3. But why does this happen so often?
For one, theyâre too easy to create, and too hard to cancel. It requires the team as a whole to fundamentally not want to have the meeting, to be in favor of a meeting because it needs to happen. Gradually the utility : time
ratio degrades, people get less and less out of their weekly session and are less engaged, just going through the motions. The whole group (especially meeting-originators) need to be on the lookout for ways to obsolete the need for having the meeting in the first place. I liked this from Aakash Gupta on Twitter, who says âmeetings are like gravityâ:
Meetings are like gravity.
â Aakash Gupta đ Product Growth Guy (@aakashg0) October 2, 2022
You have to constantly be outrunning them.
Usually, formerly good meetings hit a point where either:
¡ too many people attend
¡ or, not enough progress is made
They lose their âvalue per minute.â
Different personalities and roles have differing preferences for what medium to use for each type of work. Some will always lean toward a meeting to communicate. Some want long-form writing. Some like incessant email chains. Choosing the right medium is Step One to escaping the recurrence gravity well. To quote myself from a previous post, meetings are just one medium for communicating and getting work done. A core contributor to âmeeting fatigueâ is when weâre choosing the wrong medium for work:
I know when I find myself in a useless meeting, its âmeetingnessâ isnât the issue; itâs that we couldâve accomplished the goal with a well-written document with inline comments, an internal blog post, an open-ended Slack chat, or a point-to-point phone call between two people. Or, alternately, it could be that a meeting is the optimal medium, but the problem lies elsewhere in planning, preparation, action-orientation, or the whoâs who in attendance.
So what to do?
I recall this interview with Shopify founder and CEO Tobi Lutke. He mentions how they periodically mass-delete all recurring meetings from the corporate calendar:
That was a tangent, but to get back to the question you asked, we found that standing meetings were a real issue. They were extremely easy to create, and no one wanted to cancel them because someone was responsible for its creation. The person requesting to cancel would rather stick it out than have a very tough conversation saying, âHey, this thing that you started is no longer valuable.â Itâs just really difficult. So, we ran some analysis and we found out that half of all standing meetings were viewed as not valuable. It was an enormous amount of time being wasted. So we asked, âWhy donât we just delete all meetings?â And so we did. It was pretty rough, but we now operate on a schedule.
I donât know if this is apocryphal or real, but itâs an interesting experiment in refocusing. Like a brush fire that clears the undergrowth for new life.
A few things we could do to minimize meetings, to force more thoughtful selection of medium for the message:
- Make fewer in the first place â Seems obvious. Can we just do 1? If one isnât enough, can we just schedule 3 and go from there?
- Set end dates - 1 month, 3 months, whatever. This function exists, but I donât think Iâve seen it used once in my career. The normal move is to say âweâll cancel it later if we need to.â
- Donât make anything? â Do we even need to meet? Could it have been an email? Do you need to write up thoughts/ideas? Maybe record a Loom? Make a Miro board?
- What if calendar tools let you see how many collective hours youâre scheduling? âFor the next 1 month, this schedule will cost 60 hours of human time.â Not that this would stop some people, but may make you do a double-take to see the volume of time youâre about to commit.
Tyler Cowen says âcontext is that which is scarceâ, meaning that weâre never lacking in information in our modern lives, but the means to make productive use of the information. Meetings often stem from people lacking context. The craving for context â to have a window into whatâs going on, why itâs happening, and what to do next â generates temptations to âset up a quick meetingâ. And if we know something is too big a topic for a single session, itâs too easy to say âletâs sync up weekly on thisâ.
A lot of coordination between people is about setting or sharing context. âSyncing upâ is about sharing context. You can lean on recurring meetings to share context, which is occasionally okay if meeting trade-offs are worth it (in time required, efficiency). But sometimes we choose the wrong method for context-sharing between teams, and the need for too many meetings is merely a symptom of poorly-communicated context.
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I think short standup-style meetings, 10-15 minutes, are fine for the most part to recur. Of course there are alternative methods for getting the same job done (mutual info sharing between team members), but a quick call is fine. Tools like Loom show some promise to even make these obsolete, making asynchronous collaboration simpler. âŠ